I thought I had discovered the solution to my pain a couple of years ago when I learned about trigger points. "The Trigger Point Therapy Workbook" by Clair Davies helped me a lot. It really did take a lot of my pain away to press on my muscle knots, especially the ones in my neck, shoulders, and lower back/side butt area. I had to do it every day, though, or I'd be in a lot of pain. It's still better than pain medicine and muscle relaxers, but I realize now that I was still only treating a symptom.
A few months ago I discovered Feldenkrais and Hanna Somatics. By doing the very gentle exercises in those programs (which basically teach us firsthand about our own mind/muscle connection) I realized that I was tightening up at certain times of the day, and that my pain and tightening would get worse when I was stressed.
Learning about TMS has been my "last piece of the puzzle" because it's teaching me why I'm tensing up and holding my body wrong in the first place, which is the underlying reason I've gotten the trigger points and pain. I created them myself through my emotions. In the last week since starting this program most of my trigger points are noticeably smaller and not really bothering me. One in my side, sort of under my shoulder, is completely gone and the ones in my neck are almost gone. That's a huge deal to me and I owe it all to the brave few doctors who have the courage to teach this, and to the folks here on this forum. I'm so happy and thankful for this knowledge.
(Btw, I'm still doing the Hanna Somatics "cat stretch" routine every day, not as "physical therapy", but because it's a wonderfully energizing, full-body maintenance routine. I highly recommend it for folks who enjoy exercising, although the movements involved are very small. It's easier than the easiest yoga.)