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Now what?

you can kind of decide that youre just not gonna let symptoms bother you anymore, but it doesnt work like that.

Symptoms will always be bothersome to an extent - but you're right in that this is more of a natural process through the work. As I said, ripping the band-aid off can work later in the process once you've severely (almost completely) crushed any doubt around there being something structurally wrong (bothersome because of fear around a structural issue is the most threatening thing survival wise, bothersome because pain/symptoms suck will always be there but it doesn't compare). Trust the process as Alan Gordon says :)
 
Pressure --> Judgement --> Repression --> Symptoms. Always.

Or, remembering an old quote from when I first joined here in 2011, "Don't should on yourself!"

Eliminating I "should", I "need" from my vocabulary was revolutionary. This is exactly what landed me in hot TMS waters in the first place.
 
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