Wow, plum - feeling very warm and fuzzy inside, reading this. I like you quite a lot too. I will be lucky to become half as wise as you, someday.
OH GOD. Oh boy. It was disgusting. Just awful. I didn't watch live, but when my Facebook news feed exploded, I went to YouTube and watched the whole performance...simply cannot believe that anyone would ever consider any of that to be OK. Besides the obvious (that display of sexuality that completely objectified women, not to mention the clear racism in the whole performance), my question is, how is it this performance even made it to the VMAs? Something as huge as the VMAs have GOT to have dress rehearsals of some sort, or at least tech. Even if the whole performance was a "surprise" there are so many elements that go into a major performance - choreographers, backup dancers and their substitutes, the band, the lighting crew...how did no one catch this? Miley's not off the hook (she clearly still thinks it was "making history" and that there's nothing really wrong with her behavior), but seriously, with all the people involved, how is it that not one person realized the obscenity of this performance, and tried to speak up about it? And what about Robin Thicke? What the hell was he thinking? He's a grown, married man -- a dad, for crying out loud -- and from what I've read it sounds like he was 100% on board with his part in the performance, and had no objections to Miley's solo performance either. Not saying it was on others to step in in place of Miley. Not at all. I'm just not sure why everyone was going along with it in the first place. It was just so clearly TERRIBLE in all forms of that word. Also I think the songs themselves are pretty awful too, but that's completely besides the point.
...sorry, got a little carried away there. I jut have a lot of very strong feelings and opinions around the whole thing!