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[Filipe2025]

Oh boy, how did this become a 4chan thread?

4chan?!? Please explain. Not familiar with the term. What I meant is that women are more influenced by what peers say. That's why they are always caring for the appearance of their husbands on social events. There is nothing wrong with that.

 

[Filipe2025]

Maybe in the next life you can be born as a woman who wants nothing to do with men, or maybe as one of their cats.

No way. I love women. I don't like cats, however. They don't protect you from a burglar. I just wish they would stop thinking or trying to be like men. Who cares about power?!? Why this obsession with power? And status quo? Expensive bags, brands, and appearance? Women spend thousands on make up, clothes, etc, at the hair dresser, perfumes, hiding their wrinkles, cosmetic surgery, why!!! It's not for grabbing the truck driver, for sure lol

 

[Joulegirl]

Don't label me. That's a form of dictatorship.

Ironic that this is exactly what you did to women in this post. Absolutely disgusting to read this and realize there are still people in this world that would think less of me because of my gender.

What I meant is that women are more influenced by what peers say.

Again, a misogynist comment on a TMS FORUM where people come to find encouragement and healing. This is uncalled for. Please stop.

 

[feduccini]

4chan?!? Please explain. Not familiar with the term. What I meant is that women are more influenced by what peers say. That's why they are always caring for the appearance of their husbands on social events. There is nothing wrong with that.

An old internet forum famous for its sexist topics.

 

[Cactusflower]

The hate is what Dr. Sarno asks us to FEEL not just spew, and ruminate on. Resentments, anger and rage cause TMS. Dr. Hansom elaborated on Sarno's theory of anger and people who hold onto their hate and anger and how it eats at their soul.

You are demonstrating a fear of people who desire to feel free and have boundaries, and who have beliefs and values that are not in alignment with yourself.

 

[Filipe2025]

The hate is what Dr. Sarno asks us to FEEL not just spew, and ruminate on. Resentments, anger and rage cause TMS. Dr. Hansom elaborated on Sarno's theory of anger and people who hold onto their hate and anger and how it eats at their soul.

You are demonstrating a fear of people who desire to feel free and have boundaries, and who have beliefs and values that are not in alignment with yourself.

I'm sorry that we went off topic. You are totally right

Anyway, does anyone knows why nostalgia hurts? Every time I think about the past, when my son was a child, or other memories I gave, I feel this painful feeling. Why do I feel change this way? I remember when I was a child to have to come outside my house because I was thinking about the old days. I have to move, otherwise my memories were killing me...

 

[Filipe2025]

The hate is what Dr. Sarno asks us to FEEL not just spew, and ruminate on. Resentments, anger and rage cause TMS. Dr. Hansom elaborated on Sarno's theory of anger and people who hold onto their hate and anger and how it eats at their soul.

You are demonstrating a fear of people who desire to feel free and have boundaries, and who have beliefs and values that are not in alignment with yourself.

I just wish I had people like you around me. Most of my friends are into this kind of hypnosis. They don't care about what causes their maldies

 

[Cactusflower]

To be honest @Filipe2025 , I would never be around you. I have boundaries with people who I have such opposite values to. I do not want to surround myself with. I am an activist feminist who works towards peace and co-existance and opposes hateful rhetoric and misogynistic ideals.
My work with TMS and subsequent seeking to work towards a healthy mindset and mental health perspective have helped me immensely to direct my rage and anger away from others who are not the cause of it, and understand more deeply that it is the constructs of my own mind that have created such constraints. Meditation has been a guiding factor in opening my mind to kindness - not just to myself but to others and rooting out the hate and rage - replacing it with peace. That doesn't mean I don't feel my emotions. Right now I am raging at what I view is your horrible and hateful attitude. I have immense gratitude for no longer holding this in, and for recognizing that I don't have to tolerate or even interact with people who hang on to these ideas with such a hateful heart.
I simply choose peace.
I will hold onto my boundary.

It is not your memories that "will kill you". It is your hate.

 

[Filipe2025]

Ironic that this is exactly what you did to women in this post. Absolutely disgusting to read this and realize there are still people in this world that would think less of me because of my gender.


Again, a misogynist comment on a TMS FORUM where people come to find encouragement and healing. This is uncalled for. Please stop.

My mother is a woman. What are you saying? This woke mentality is destroying democracy.

If I say they men cheated more than woman, or that men love technology more than women, or that men are physically more stronger, am I being sexist? Or that woman are more sensible, or that children, when there is a divorce, should be with their mother. Feminism should be condemned, as mashism should also be.

 

[JanAtheCPA]

I received a complaint about this thread and about the OP, suggesting that he be moderated - which I'm not going to do. He has expressed offensive rhetoric generally, but it's not personally aimed at any individuals here. It's clearly just sad and very dysfunctional. If I had been involved, I would have stopped interacting long before now, because this whole argument is an extension of victimhood behavior, and victimhood can't EVER be resolved by arguing with the perceived victim about their beliefs.

To be brutally honest, what it looks like to me is that y'all are enabling its continuation. I also wonder if it's possible that this argument is providing some kind of outlet for the fact that EVERYONE is experiencing existential terror right now about what appears to be complete societal breakdown. We don't allow any political discussions on this forum, but misunderstandings between genders is generally outside the obvious realm of politics and provides a source of a huge amount of stress in the human psyche - so it seems like it's allowable here. I don't know. I'd rather not bring in Forest to adjudicate. My inclination is to let this last comment be the last word (which is verging on the edge of unacceptable by using the "w" word) and to shut this thread down. PC me privately if you disagree. And please, @Filipe2025, don't bring it up again, or I WILL put your account into moderation.

 

[JanAtheCPA]

PS - if you are concerned about a thread or a member, please use the Report link which is at the bottom of every post. That puts a red flag on my menu bar - otherwise, I might not notice that there is a problem thread.