My name is Cache, I am a 30 year old male who is struggling to get some answers... about 8 weeks ago I got what seemed like a horrible UTI (never had one before) but after going to the doctor and having test ran everything came back negative. The pain was a 10/10 and was on going with no let up for weeks.Over the next almost three weeks I was going to the bathroom every 10min, couldn't eat, couldn't sleep and was becoming very depressed very fast.of course I read all of google which did nothing but make me think I was going to be miserable for the rest of my life. I have an amazing wife and 3 young kids and I know I have been stressed lately with some things but been plenty of times in my life that I've been stressed. The past couple weeks my symptoms in my bladder have gotten better I go to the bathroom pretty regular now and sleep has greatly improved almost normal but now have burning pain in thighs, my penis will hurt/ feel uncomfortable and same with my bladder but no pain to urinate just uncomfortable around the pubic area as well as testicle pain and scrotum pain. The urologist said I had epidididmitis in my right testicle but probably had it for a long time a so all I can think is maybe with all these symptoms it really flared up. I have had days were it's hard to sit down with the whole golf ball in the butt thing people talk about and just feeling a little depressed. Been to the urologist twice, go to see a new one tomorrow and also starting PT of my pelvic floor tomorrow. My wife is a doctor and we both believe this is not bacterial and so I had taken bactrim DS for 14 days and then quit and will not be taking anymore or anything unless they find a bacteria. I don't want any surgery and or take medicine I am willing to do whatever it takes and mentally if I need to focus and fix my brain I will just not sure if possibly it's something else just yet and maybe PT will help or maybe not. When I take a hot shower and relax at night it seems to feel better and that makes me think it's muscular/maybe nerve related as I have had back issues for most my life but never had any of these issues with it. Any advice? I have read about the TMS protocol but have no idea were to start it's like there are books and forums and all kids of stuff but no direct path to take?? Has anyone heard of the DNRS (Dynamic Neural Retraining System)? Is this a lot like that? Any comments or help would be greatly appreciated.