That is a good start Gaby, to tell yourself that there is nothing wrong.
Some folks see that TMS attempts to "take away" what is most important to them. In your case, sex is pretty fun probably, and so the TMS is really challenging this activity. So you might gently inquire into this, that it is a great distraction, this TMS, because it is taking the fun away from something important to you.
Good luck and be patient as possible with the process you are undertaking here with the SEP.
Andy B.