Supposedly you are some kind of «wonder child».
People, friends, family, colleagues, .... are expecting «the best» from you: to become an excellent writter, musician, artist, scientist, ....
You are suffering an enormous amount of emotional pression in order to fullfill all those expectations.
But the failure, the frustration, the defeat in a near future is a realistic possibility.
You are scared of that failure, you are seriously worried about your selfimage, you have fear, even panic, of failing in your search for professional excellence.
You are fully convinced that you public image will be destroyed.
You are feared by the shame and the humiliation you will get.
You are anticipating huge amounts of emotional suffering.
Eventually you develope pain in your hand/arms.
That pain is the perfect sheltering for your artistic or scientific great expectatives.
You must stop you career, so you will never be rejected nor rebuked in you higher aspirations .... and people, friends, family, colleagues,.... just will say «what a pity, and wath a lack of luck.... poor man, so gifted, so clever, so smart, so promising... »
Sounds familiar? To much protection against anticipated and overamplificated emotional suffering? Tipical TMS ?
People, friends, family, colleagues, .... are expecting «the best» from you: to become an excellent writter, musician, artist, scientist, ....
You are suffering an enormous amount of emotional pression in order to fullfill all those expectations.
But the failure, the frustration, the defeat in a near future is a realistic possibility.
You are scared of that failure, you are seriously worried about your selfimage, you have fear, even panic, of failing in your search for professional excellence.
You are fully convinced that you public image will be destroyed.
You are feared by the shame and the humiliation you will get.
You are anticipating huge amounts of emotional suffering.
Eventually you develope pain in your hand/arms.
That pain is the perfect sheltering for your artistic or scientific great expectatives.
You must stop you career, so you will never be rejected nor rebuked in you higher aspirations .... and people, friends, family, colleagues,.... just will say «what a pity, and wath a lack of luck.... poor man, so gifted, so clever, so smart, so promising... »
Sounds familiar? To much protection against anticipated and overamplificated emotional suffering? Tipical TMS ?
