Recurrence of Hip Pain post-Surgery

Most people have TERRIBLE range of motion, not just in hips but everywhere. But they're not in pain. Same goes with posture, or strength, or any of the many other myriad boogiemen that the (well meaning) physical therapists point to for remedy.

I had awful ROM on my hips too - it was one of the "tests" the PA for my surgeon put me through. Here's the thing though, I had awful ROM in BOTH hips, and I only got one worked on (but both hurt and I BEGGED them to operate on the other one too). Guess what? Range of motion is still bad, and both hips don't hurt. That's TMS.

 

Hello there! Thank you for the mention!

Would you be open to a podcast interview?

 

I'm as inflexible as you are. And for this reason, it makes perfect sense that you and I got pain in our hips. In my case, I got into doing a lot of yoga, actively working on getting more flexible. Hips were an easy place for my pain to start. I think it's possible I over-stretched something in heated yoga, and from there the TMS/chronic pain began. I bet you were already fixated on your lack of hip mobility before the pain, and it's not surprising at all to me that this is where your pain now is. Also, nowhere in your doctor's diagnosis is anything about "bone-on-bone." I think your fear may be giving you even more in-your-head diagnoses.

I'm not trying to berate you, but again, you seem to be really preoccupied with your pain and body. I know it's far easier said than done, but you have to live life and work on lowering your fear.

One other thing I'll mention that helped me for my hip problem was at the outset I worked with a great psychologist who's trained in TMS and works with one of the top TMS doctors. She's not in insurance so it's an expense. But for me it was very helpful to have a coach to work with to help convince me my pain wasn't structural. DM me if you'd like her contact info.

 

What two programs are you referencing? Please provide info thanks!!

 

Its ironic you mentioned this because I started hot yoga also and after every session I was often in MORE pain because I think I was going too deep into the stretches (because im the worst one in the class of 50 people I think I feel inadequate in there). So the other day I tried to stretch my IT bands by standing and spreading the legs (like a splits but barely 45 degrees) and since then my right hip has been screaming in pain all day and night for 4 days. Its awful I am barely sleeping. And to answer the comment about bone on bone isnt that exactly what arthritis is? And they are telling me I have "severe arthritis". I want so bad to believe this is all tms but im struggling with some of the symptoms. And I am really not trying to "hyper fixate" on the pain but imagining not being able to work, sit comfortably, or sleep for nearly 2 years. It's a lot and is doing psychology damage to my well being. Im always tired, always throbbing. Im just so tired of it. Im sorry for ranting but its been a lot for me on top of all my stressors in life while trying to be the best father, friend, son, and find love again and success in my new career too.

 

Scroll town the page on tmswiki.org and look for the structured educational program and pain recovery program.

The definition of arthritis: Swelling and tenderness in one or more joints, causing joint pain or stiffness

stress contributes or is even the source to things like swelling and inflammation because of the body’s chemical reaction to stress and anxiety - these chemicals create inflammation.

 

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Check this thread out about arthritis. https://www.tmswiki.org/forum/threads/arthritis-and-tms.8859/
Sarno said it’s TMS.

Word of advice: make sure you actually consider the advice you get here and don’t keep wallowing in the medical world. That world doesn’t acknowledge TMS. They will look for something structural to pin your pain on. At some point you’ll have to go all in on TMS and do the emotional work to heal. If you straddle the fence, you’ll have no hope of getting better.

 

A friend of mine started suffering from severe arthritis. Had a wise doctor. The first thing he asked him was how had been his last year. His house was broken into and his wife rolled the car. Unfortunately this was many years ago and I did not know TMS. But I always remember him telling that story because for him it was strange that a doc would ask that .

 

Ok all im posting this to provide feedback and anything that may help us all. This is VERY wierd but after 2 years of TERRIBLE chronic constant shooting/mobility/throbbing/nerve/joint pain, the last two weeks have been a MASSIVE reduction in pain. Im talking 50%. For me this is completely without prescedent. I have even slept for the first time in 2 years because of the reduction in pain, most notably, the constant shooting, burning, throbbing pain in the tfl and the extreme tightness/soreness in the IT band. I do not have an answer as to what is helping but I want to give you my playbook and see if any resonates with you or helps you.

1. I did PRP in the hips about 6 weeks ago. Until 2 weeks ago I had felt no reduction in pain. The reduction happened literally almost overnight so that makes me think it wasnt the PRP. Im not an expert but it doesnt make sense that getting PRP is like a delayed release bomb that goes off in one night 5 weeks from the injection.
2. I started accessing this forum and read some sarno and got some hope from some of the stories here about similar hip pain. Meaning, I started for the first time saying "maybe this is more tms than i thought".
3. I started PT with a new therapist that is having me do more or less the same exercises (90/90 roations, stretches, the usual), BUT she has been doing cupping in the affected areas. Perhaps that is helping??
4. I started taking shilajit to lower cortisal about a month ago (from Purish).
5. Ive journaled a bit in the last month and do9ne some short meditations a few times a week (5 minutes).

Ok so thats it. Overall Im still dealing with plenty of stresses and anxieties in my life, but the biggest one was my chronic pain and what it "means" about the rest of my life. Suddenly, the pain damn near disappeared overnight. Now Im not saying there is NO pain and everything is fine. My body is hella tight in the morning, my mobility is still terrible (but better in the last 2 weeks), and yes it feels sore after yoga or walking a decent amount, but its not chronic and its not distracting. So what do you think is happening? I genuinely hope yall dont say the PRP because it would give me so much comfort knowing it was the other things, more TMS related. But bottom line is I had a massive breakthrough and really so grateful and feeling hopeful again!!!

 

That's great!

Now re-read what you just wrote and see what you take from that. The proof is all there, it just needs to sink in.

 

thanks for the response hip guy. honestly im just so happy to feel some relief but i will admit the confusion of not knowing what transpired that made such a drastic change nearly overnight is the weird part. For example, is it possible it was the PRP? yes of course it is. Is it possible that the shilajit reduced my already high cortisol to a point where im not longer having elevated cortisol related body pain? sure. Is it possible its the cupping? possibly. But the DRASTIC change in such a short time still tells me its mostly TMS related. The things I mentioned above wouldnt activate in a single day, weeks later (I dont think). BUt I havent even done that much in terms of TMS therapy either, which is unusual as well. On one hand I wish I knew the exact formula that is helping. On the other hand, the hope and optimism I feel from getting a massive pain reduction is wonderful and truly makes me feel like we can conquer this.

 

Of course it is. That's why I said to re-read your post. All that you needed to know was in that particular part. This is similar to a "book cure" situation. The mere realization that TMS is at "play" and even if your conscious mind you only see that as "one possiblity" - it is still enough to make a difference.

Now, as Baseball65 likes to say - KILL IT. Keep pursuing this lead until you get more realizations, and more realizations, and you'll learn more about yourself in the process.

 

TMS is a lifelong condition. There is no "putting it behind you" and moving on from it. But you become better at dealing with it, managing it, keeping it in check, resolving it, etc. It's as much a part of us as eating or breathing, both of which are also lifelong conditions. Ha ha.

The reason I say all this is that I have experienced a recent flare up in symptoms and wanted to share my experience here. As usual, part of this (most of it?) is selfish in that sharing my thoughts, getting them on paper if you will, helps me in resolving things...but also as usual I'm hoping this will help someone else reading this.

A few weeks back, I noticed some pain that is normally diagnosed as Plantar Fasciitis (pain in the bottom of the foot, usually the heel - feels like you're walking on a pebble). I have dealt with this before, in fact just a few years ago I had a particularly nasty session that lasted several months before resolving. Needless to say, it got my attention. Of course, I looked at it as TMS - with so much experience behind me, it's hard for TMS to "sneak up" on me anymore. Around the same time I found my brother was having a real serious issue with the same "ailment" - coincidence? No way. I even ran into him while doing a trail run and he lamented his issues which sounded pretty severe - I know that he is basically unreachable from a TMS treatments standpoint (he's my brother, I know him well), so I tried to offer some advice as best I could and said some prayers. I know how impressionable I am though, and tried to keep putting myself in a strict mindset of "this is TMS - it is not physical" as a result.

Well in the past few days my plantar fasciitis symptoms started to subside...but only to be replaced in the last few days by guess what? Hip pain!

Hip pain in my operated hip. Hip pain that feels exactly like it did leading up to the surgery. Achey...sore...burning feeling in the hip joint when engaged to walk or run or left the leg over something. Now what I didn't mention above that is I am currently training for a marathon and I am doing some heavy training as a result - the last few weeks in fact have been the most intense volume I've done in a long while. So I'm definitely stressing my body. But I am sitting here steadfastly refusing to believe that narrative because I've been down that path before. Nice try TMS. You can stop this BS right now.

Last night while doing some yardwork (mowing the lawn is very meditative for me, as it's mindless and I can do some good thinking), I tried to do some data mining on what might be going on for me psychologically right now. I'm feeling some stress, I have 2 teenage kids, one of which is in between his first and second year in college and the first year didn't go so well. My youngest is dating her first BF, and while he's a nice guy, it worries me having her away from home doing who-knows-what (I know she's a good girl though).

There's of course work stress and all the other things - but what struck through like a lightning bolt once I started this thinking process was - I just had lunch with my mom earlier in the week and she had relayed some family news that my uncle...an 85+ yo suffering with some dementia and health issues...had fallen over the weekend and broken his hip! Doh! Influenced again!

I've spent the rest of the night allaying fears and tamping down worry, even though the hip was as sore as ever...then woke this morning with it feeling about 50% better. I'm going to keep pounding in this direction and I fully expect it to resolve itself.

 

I am really sorry. You were answering my question, but you have a problem. I am sure you are solving it!

The obsessive compulsive disorder is common for TMS problem, isn't it?