As both miffybunny and Andy have said, there's no one way to do it, and everyone journals differently The important thing to remember is that you explore your feelings as much as you can and be completely honest with yourself. Don't lie in the journal, you're the only one who's going to read it anyway. Find any nook and cranny you can about your past and current experiences and how you feel, and let your grammar be as messy as you want, it's all about how you feel, not how it looks.