So today the clutch in the 2003 Corvette gets stuck to the floor and my husband can't go see his psychologist. He had a complete meltdown and is texting and calling me at work. He can't handle ANY type of stress. He has a friend visiting tomorrow for an overnight stay that he has not seen in 20 years which is freaking him out as well. So as always I take care of EVERYTHING! I call the auto repair shop and talk to them. And when I get home I call and arrange a tow through our insurance company for Monday. I send the friend the best routes to our house because my husband cannot and does not travel anywhere unless I am driving. I travel to visit my friend on the other side of the state regularly. I really don't care anything about this friend but I don't want to discourage the visit because it's the first friend he has had visit since we moved here almost 20 years ago. I just hope he doesn't have an IBS attack or a migraine and I am stuck entertaining. I had to go to meet his family last fall down in Orlando because he could not. So I represented the family. Who the hell takes care of me? Gee I wonder why I have back pain and headaches too!! Could be 20 years of dealing with all of this crap. No wonder I have depression, anxiety and chronic pain. How do I learn to deal with it and not feel the pain?