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Grieving time

I feel like you and me are on very much same trajectory. My grief is that I can’t have children if i have pain (we wanted them just before my injury and that put a stop to it!), but TMS is the gift that stopped me from hitting those life KPIs for the sake of it. I genuinely think I wouldn’t have been a good mother, with all the self-doubt, pressure, Type A personality traits I don’t think I’d have done a good job. When I get out the other side of this, im going to be someone I never thought I could, and that’s someone who loves themselves wholeheartedly (and thus loves the extension of themselves even more deeply)

Love it. You can't possibly love your neighbour if you're not going to love yourself
 
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