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hi michaelg21,
I thank u for writing what you wrote. I’m a young teen who has been struggling with BFS for about 4 months now.. may seem like a short time but wow it’s been some depressing months. I feel like my teen and youth years have been destroyed and crushed. It started off with intense twitching, while at rest like lying down or sitting down. Slowly it became less frequent but not enough where I could go 5 minutes without a twitch. Literally everywhere. I mean it. My face, lips eyes cheeks forhead side of head at times rarely.. my thighs calf my toes omg so annoying. My fingers my wrist sometimes, my arms, ITS HORRIBLE. But it’s like I can’t live my life like this. I have health anxiety and when I tell you I’m convinced I have ALS or MS is crazy. I ask for prayers or just help in any way. Words of affirmation and encouragement. Thank you sm.
Hi,
I mean it isn’t normal for a teenager or anyone to experience consistent twitches right? I have gotten cat scans done, mri, and recently an EEG , the rest have been normal but I haven’t gotten a result for the eeg yet. Im anxious to know if ima live a life of worry. Im also getting a nerve test but all these exams are making me wonder if my nueroligist sees something wrong.
@hellokittylover22 - you will be just fine. At my worst, i couldn’t go 2 seconds without a twitch in my legs. I twitched all over, but the legs were constant. I also had ‘sensory’ symptoms (buzzing, tingling, prickling sensations) off and on throughout the day.
Given your age and clear results in tests you’ve had done, these are not symptoms of an organic disease. This is your brain/body on constant fear, hyper vigilant of every tiny twitch that’s occurring in your body. You would be amazed at the amount of twitching seems to occur in people who are blissfully unaware of it. Sometimes if I bother to look, I can still see twitches in my calves, but I don’t feel them anymore and forget about it as quickly as I remembered. That’s really the trick to this whole twitching thing - move on and forget about it. I used to agonise over ‘how do I move on, how do I forget about it?’. The answer to that is to remove all fear of the symptom. Stop worrying that it’s deadly, and stop letting the symptom itself bother you.
I feel the same rn with the tingling and all that. So all u did was forget? nothing taken to help?@hellokittylover22 - you will be just fine. At my worst, i couldn’t go 2 seconds without a twitch in my legs. I twitched all over, but the legs were constant. I also had ‘sensory’ symptoms (buzzing, tingling, prickling sensations) off and on throughout the day.
Given your age and clear results in tests you’ve had done, these are not symptoms of an organic disease. This is your brain/body on constant fear, hyper vigilant of every tiny twitch that’s occurring in your body. You would be amazed at the amount of twitching seems to occur in people who are blissfully unaware of it. Sometimes if I bother to look, I can still see twitches in my calves, but I don’t feel them anymore and forget about it as quickly as I remembered. That’s really the trick to this whole twitching thing - move on and forget about it. I used to agonise over ‘how do I move on, how do I forget about it?’. The answer to that is to remove all fear of the symptom. Stop worrying that it’s deadly, and stop letting the symptom itself bother you.
Dear @hellokittylover22,
I can see that you are suffering from the fear of what is happening to you, which is understandable. It sounds like you have been thoroughly examined and that "they can't find anything wrong". This means that your symptoms have a psychological source, not a physical source.
You don't mention your parents or family. What is going on there? Where are your parents in all this, and what is your home life like?
Those are the questions I immediately have when I see somebody as young as you who has such extreme symptoms which have no cause. The cause is more likely to be extreme anxiety.
Have any of these medical people suggested psychotherapy, or a at least a program for reducing your anxiety?
How are you at reading books? I'm not sure what to recommend for a "young teenager" but there are a lot of books and other resources for addressing your issues from the psychological viewpoint. Is English your second language?
Look, @hellokittylover22, again - I can see you are really suffering. And I'm impressed that you found our forum, because based on what you have told us, it seems quite clear that you are suffering from the mind-body condition we call TMS.
The thing is, on this forum, we are devoted to MENTAL and EMOTIONAL recovery in order to eliminate our physical symptoms. We remind ourselves constantly to think PSYCHOLOGICALLY instead of physically. We don't spend time discussing treatments or supplements or diets, because those don't generally help at all - at best, they work briefly because of the mindbody process known as the Placebo Effect.
Doing the emotional work takes a lot of concentrated effort, and I am not qualified to say whether someone as young as you (I'm going to guess 14) can do this work on their own. I'm not sure it is even ethical for any of the adults here to suggest that you should even try - not without the help of a professional.
You've been assigned to a therapist, and I would advise asking that person to work on your anxiety with you. As someone who has suffered from anxiety and TMS-induced symptoms all my life, which is more than 70 years, I am here to tell you that you absolutely DO have anxiety which undoubtedly existed before you had these symptoms. The symptoms have appeared because your anxiety is being triggered excessively by something else.
In order to start your healing process, you have to accept this, and then be willing to explore it with an open mind. But you simply cannnot have an open mind until you can figure out how to stop the cycle of fear that you are currently experiencing.
Perhaps we have some TMS-fluent parents out there who can help advise @hellokittylover22.
It is well known and discussed frequently that today's teenagers who are exposed to technology and an overload of information, along with the stress of social media, are suffering from a massive mental health crisis. Wars, climate change, and injustice everywhere only add to the distress. Although your individual suffering is unique to you, in reality you are just one of many teens who are in crisis right now, and it expresses itself in all kinds of strange physical symtpoms, all over the world.
You can try to educate yourself about this, but you won't be able to do anything if you doom-scroll about your symptoms, or if you engage in forums where people encourage you to catastrophize and worry. You really MUST STOP the catastrophizing. The truth is that if you've been thoroughly checked out, you must accept that there is nothing physically wrong with you, and that your fearful brain is causing these symptoms in order to keep you from acknowledging and experiencing some kind of emotional pain. This is what our brains evolved to do - it makes no sense in today's world, but it is what it is.
To maybe get help from adults here who have experience with teenagers, I recommend that you start a new thread in the Support subforum, and choose a subject line like "Teenager with severe stress symptoms needs advice". Tell your story briefly, and include the fact that you have been medically checked out and that they can't find anything wrong.
To get started on our resources, you can check out our Structured Educational Program at tmswiki.org. It's free, and does not require any kind of registration - you just click on the link for each "Day" and start learning.
I’m not sure. I’ve had great support from my parents but I just wish to go to my happier version of myself. I guess I just have to get used to it.What can we do for you?