I thought that talking with a therapist would be helpful to me in dealing with my childhood grief. I told him I knew my pain to be psychosomatic, but I don't think he really believes me. That's the sense I get. I think the ideal is probably to have a tms therapist or if this is not an option, someone who believes in the body\mind connection. I just found it so confusing. The Sep, as Walt suggests, was much more helpful for me.