I'm a 33 year old mom to 4. I have three kiddos here and one in heaven. About 9 months after she died, I started having pain in my butt, thigh, groin, leg, etc. It moves around a lot. I have tried all the typical treatments and I haven't got any better. I stopped exercising, stopped playing with my kids soccer and things like that. And I became depressed thinking about a future of limited activity and pain. It been 2 1/2 years. I honestly am not 100% sure my pain is TMS because I know my hips are different heights and my pelvis is turned a little. But I think there is a good chance. My sister died 6 years ago and I developed bad diaphragm pain (same place her cancer was). It went away after a while but I feel like it was sympathy pain. I totally fit the personality type of TMS. Since my youngest baby was born I started having all sorts of neurological weirdness that no one can find the cause of. My docs all thought it was stress related so I think there is a good chance it's TMS. Life without TMS would mean exercise, playing, running, and jumping without worry. It would also mean getting off the floor and standing up quickly. No more worrying about walking with my hips straight forward. No more trying to think of my sacrum being squeezed together and stable. Life without TMS would mean enjoying myself without worrying about my future health.