I've known about TMS for a year now and have had great gains with it! I have been experiencing several relapses in the previous couple of months. I think mine has to do with perfectionism and fear/preoccupation with the pain. I know that I'm completely obsessed with it and that's what I'm trying to work on now. My question though is if I switch gears from the pain and TMS and try to ignore all of that, won't that be repressing things? I know I think too much about things as I'm constantly reliving painful experiences in my life trying to figure out the repression piece and it's made me more unhappy actually. Could it really just be that I need to tell myself that I don't fear this and ignore it completely now? I need advice!