brendan537

Hey Brendan, I don't know if you still visit this site, but I think of you and your story. I wanted you to know that there's a 60 year old woman out here, me, who hopes that every day of your life gets better and easier. You are very young. Please don't give up on yourself. I know you had a rough beginning. Just wanted to let you know that somebody is rooting for you.

Beendan I texted you a few days ago.

How are you doing, Brendan?

Brendan, hang in there. I had crippling back pain that ended my career in the Army reserves. I read Sarnos books but needed extra help from a therapist. My life has drastically improved so know it is possible.

When I crawled out of benzodizapine addiction I realized that there was nobody for me! I had been pretending my whole life that I had a happy healthy familly relationship!!! What is worse I choose a husband that is just like my parents!!!

What is your family history? Where they there for you to support your recovery?
Did they teach you how to bring joy in your life - singing, dancing, prayer, nature, friends, art.... or did you have to face the accident all on your own?

Also, if you didn't watch the 20/20 video about Dr. Sarno it might help. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vsR4wydiIBI

Hi Brendan! I know the feeling although I don't mention it often. Life can become very difficult! Reading the book is a great start. I underlined all the parts I thought were most important and the things I wanted to remember. The SEP (Structured Educational Program) is probably the best way to go because I didn't know about it and I had to figure out my next steps on my own.

I'm sorry to hear about your past, I can relate to quite a few of those. Just curious, you've done the SEP, right? You got one heck of an uncle btw.

Looking for help. Currently reading low back pain.