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Recent Content by zclesa

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    Symptoms as Signs and Messengers?

    I never used to procrastinate at all. I was the kid who did my homework as soon as I got it and that continued into my work life. It's only since...
    Post by: zclesa, Mar 14, 2025 in forum: Support Subforum
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    Symptoms as Signs and Messengers?

    Ha, yes, I am really angry about the way the world works, but I am aware of that. Despite paying rent early every year for over ten years in both...
    Post by: zclesa, Mar 14, 2025 in forum: Support Subforum
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    Symptoms as Signs and Messengers?

    I hear you, @JanAtheCPA. It's horrible, because we start out genuinely wanting to do something good. Helping others has always made my life...
    Post by: zclesa, Feb 17, 2025 in forum: Support Subforum
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    Symptoms as Signs and Messengers?

    Thanks, Diana. It's helpful to know you also relate to this. Some of us were trained in childhood to put our own needs last. I certainly was....
    Post by: zclesa, Feb 17, 2025 in forum: Support Subforum
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    Symptoms as Signs and Messengers?

    No, I don't think you need to uproot your life, But there needs to be a rage/soothe ratio. If you're working hard or doing things you don't like...
    Post by: zclesa, Feb 17, 2025 in forum: Support Subforum
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    Symptoms as Signs and Messengers?

    I do keep in touch and I've just put in to adopt one of the cats! :)
    Post by: zclesa, Feb 17, 2025 in forum: Support Subforum
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    Symptoms as Signs and Messengers?

    Has anyone realised that their symptoms were sometimes a Body Says No type of thing? My symptoms get a lot better when I am enjoying myself. They...
    Thread by: zclesa, Feb 17, 2025, 19 replies, in forum: Support Subforum
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    So Utterly Confused - The Start of my Story

    @Mr Hip Guy, No, I was't being a goodist. I mean sometimes I COULD feel an immense amount of disproportional anger IN MY BODY. I learnt how to...
    Post by: zclesa, Jan 22, 2024 in forum: Support Subforum
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    So Utterly Confused - The Start of my Story

    I do NOT think my psychosomatising is a way of distracting me from rage because I'm afraid of it or don't want to admit it. I would like nothing...
    Post by: zclesa, Jan 20, 2024 in forum: Support Subforum
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    Angry about having to do TMS work

    I don't know if this will help you @Tmswarrior32, but I just had a look at my core values. These are Creativity, Individuality, and Freedom, above...
    Post by: zclesa, Jan 18, 2024 in forum: General Discussion Subforum
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    Angry about having to do TMS work

    @Juizbobz, thank you. I think I see what you're getting at, which is the same thing I think Miffybuffy was getting at. I'm not accepting myself as...
    Post by: zclesa, Jan 15, 2024 in forum: General Discussion Subforum
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    Be self-led, not symptom-led. Where there is fear, bring love. Lift whatever blocks your happiness.

    Be self-led, not symptom-led. Where there is fear, bring love. Lift whatever blocks your happiness.
    Status Update by zclesa, Jan 11, 2024
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    Just sending a note of appreciation for replying to my posts. I thank you for your time,...

    Just sending a note of appreciation for replying to my posts. I thank you for your time, thoughts, and energy. I am grateful for you.
    Profile Post by zclesa for miffybunny, Jan 10, 2024
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    Just a thank you for replying to my most recent posts. I appreciate you!

    Just a thank you for replying to my most recent posts. I appreciate you!
    Profile Post by zclesa for Cactusflower, Jan 10, 2024