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    Pelvic Pain Healed

    Thank you! What an encouraging post and helpful for me, who has pelvic pain as one of the symptoms.
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    IBS and Anxiety! Help!

    I feel your pain, TrustIt, as a fellow IBS/anxiety sufferer. It's a horrible place to be where you are. First aid suggestions that I've found helpful in the past: Breathe! Know that you are not alone Listen to a favourite TMS or other podcast. Or indeed a favourite radio programme...
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    Pelvic Pain - Feeling Stuck

    Thank you for posting this video, Cactusflower. Although it's nearly all information that I've acquired here and elsewhere over the years, there is something very empowering about hearing a renowned physician in this particular area say with such authority that pelvic pain and tightness that...
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    Do you feel ashamed or guilty about your situation??

    That Jon Kabat-Zinn quote and your thoughts about it are very helpful Ellen. Thank you.
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    The Contrary Nature of TMS

    This so helpful and clear, as @hecate105 has said. Thank you Ann. I'm dealing with these same points right now, notably the lack of feelings of safety in many pivotal areas of my life and the lack of acceptance of flares of what feels like unbearable pelvic pain. My whole body and nervous...
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    Recovery from Digestive issues (LPR, Dyspepsia)

    This is a wonderful success story. Thank you.
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    Tried to kill myself after so long in pain...still here and worse off.

    Haven't been around here for a while, but here I am and I needed to read this post. Thank you so much for it. The lockdown has thrown me in on myself which has brought up a lot of childhood stuff that I thought I'd worked through on my TMS journey. I'm retired and I live alone and normally...
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    Day 22 The Fear, and how to get over it

    The pain medications help a bit, and I've no qualms about taking them but they are not enough to let me sleep during a bad flare. Thankfully this isn't every night, and mostly my sleep isn't too bad. But when it isn't it does muck up my head, I have to admit, and I posted the comment you...
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    Update - most chronic pain gone, but need help with symptom imperative

    = I feel for you dealing with this. My story with IBS and acute rectal/bowel pain is very similar and I have had mixed success in applying TMS principles simply because my mind and body in the past have gone into very acute anxiety and panic mode almost automatically. I've had all the...
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    Day 22 The Fear, and how to get over it

    My symptoms aren't the same as yours @cool_change (IBS + rectal pain/spasm) but I am struggling - in my case with the deep fear of the pain, thanks to a recent excruciating flare. Thanks for the reminder re Claire Weekes, I have her excellent book and need to do some re-reading. I too...
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    A desperate update, opinions appreciated

    There's gold here, @RogueWave. Thank you so much for breaking the TMS recovery concept down into such easy to follow points. I've actually printed off your answer here to refer to away from the computer. The body being addicted to stress hormones rings so true to me., and many of my...
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    Just starting out, hopefully only a minor setback

    Absolutely, no "one size fits all" in TMS recovery. Not always easy to do, but it is the key part of TMS recovery for me.
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    Bladder burning pain for 13 years on off

    Welcome @JennyDK35 . You're in the right place, and from the way you describe your history and personality type it sounds as if you have the "TMS personality". I'm very sorry you're having this pain and for the troubles and pain you have had over the years. For me, I have IBS/rectal spasm...
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    I may have developed PGAD - Persistent genital arousal (male)

    Very helpful summary and a good reminder of how to deal with flares - always useful, at least to me @NicoleB34. Thanks. I have the IBS/rectal spasm and IC symptoms and I've always believed they were linked, even before learning about CS/ TMS. It really does come back to acceptance, trust and...
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    Day 10 Food/IBS/struggling with triggers

    I'm still a work in progress with IBS and pelvic pain but my relationship with food has changed in that I now know that food itself isn't the issue, it's the feelings behind it. I used to have food binges as you describe but, to be honest, the physical pain and sickness I got increasingly after...
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