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Recent content by Layne

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    Parts Therapy I did some parts work tonight. Can someone help me interpret?

    Thank you for your reply!!! I apologize for the very delayed response. I have four jobs and two classes and life has been busy busy!! I haven't tried talking to the parts again. I have found that my daily 15 minutes meditations are difficult to maintain, much less an hour or two of parts work...
  2. Layne

    Parts Therapy I did some parts work tonight. Can someone help me interpret?

    Hello all! I was around a while back, but since getting better, I have gone out into the world to pursue my dreams! My TMS symptoms were mainly digestion related and now my stomach is a tank. I can digest anything! I do have some back pain from a fall at work, but I haven't explored that too...
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    Claire Weekes Audio

    OMG. 1 and 2 were good but 3 and 4 totally describe the last few years of my life! So she states sensitization as a cause of the nervous illness and that it is possible to desensitize. I think that my nervous system is and has always been more sensitive than others. I know I'm not alone - I...
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    Breakthrough - hope it can help someone else.

    Thank you for your super sweet post, Leslie!!! Your suggestions are really helpful and I am going to start implementing them in my recovery. I especially appreciate the part about questioning whether or not it's your guy speaking! So helpful.
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    Breakthrough - hope it can help someone else.

    I've been following it since week 1 :D I have all the episodes on my iPhone and listen to various ones frequently. The event is absolutely amazing.
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    Breakthrough - hope it can help someone else.

    Hey guys! I haven't been around much lately... preparing for huge life changes. But I was listening to an Alan Watts lecture this morning that sparked a free-write journaling session. What sparked it was when he spoke about how a person might flatter themselves as being dutiful. In an...
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    Frustrated

    I can do that sometimes and I believe it's very useful. However, during times like these, when I can look back and see that the incident was two weeks ago, I have a hard time going back there and undoing whatever thought started the "episode." Same thing with this headache I've had since...
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    Frustrated

    I will try that visualization - thank you! I hadn't thought of that :)
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    Frustrated

    Wow, what amazing responses - thank you! It's not just about digging; it's also about even being able to identify which emotions I'm feeling at a given time. I have a really, really hard time giving them names or even paying attention to them until they're screaming at me. And if I'm working...
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    Frustrated

    Getting at that which my symptoms are covering up is like clawing my way out of a deep stone well. It's just.so.hard. I feel like it shouldn't be this hard. Can I really have developed defense mechanisms so sophisticated that it's THIS hard to get under them? Or am I making this harder than...
  11. Layne

    facing a fear

    I have the same problem. I have gotten in trouble at work for not asking for help when I needed it - but how can I ask for help if I don't know I need it? I think the need to seem competent is so deeply ingrained that I don't know when to ask for help. I have always been very independent...
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