I hadn't checked up on this thread (forgotten I'd posted it) and LOVE all of your responses @Lily Rose brings up an awesome point...Maybe our hobbies SHOULD be our life. When we are asked what we DO it always implies what we do for work, for a job, for a career. Blah, blah, blah. But what if we shared those things we love instead, those things ...so eloquently put For some reason I always thought those things don't count, only a job counts. But I'd like to live my life by THOSE things instead (I'm pretty sure TMS symptoms would lessen and/or go away, too).