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    So Utterly Confused - The Start of my Story

    Thanks for sharing, @MrHipGuy. I wake up with forehead tension and a tight jaw. While awake, I push my tongue against my teeth unconsciously. I...
    Post by: zclesa, Sep 18, 2023 at 11:48 AM in forum: Support Subforum
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    So Utterly Confused - The Start of my Story

    Thanks @sleepyjay. I sometimes find it helpful to read other people's stories to get hope, identification, and sometimes a helping hand on my...
    Post by: zclesa, Sep 17, 2023 at 6:21 PM in forum: Support Subforum
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    Trouble finding ways to be really "heard"

    Thanks @Cactusflower It has been nice to share what I'm struggling with. I suppose that is part of it. Yes, I do feel the sensations. My anger is...
    Post by: zclesa, Sep 17, 2023 at 6:11 PM in forum: General Discussion Subforum
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    Trouble finding ways to be really "heard"

    Hey @Cactusflower, thanks for replying. I do feel sadness sensations; sometimes I cry and sometimes I can't. I feel lonely sensations. And I do...
    Post by: zclesa, Sep 17, 2023 at 4:23 PM in forum: General Discussion Subforum
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    Trouble finding ways to be really "heard"

    Does anyone else find that most people do not seem to be open to "really" listening? They talk about superficial things. Or if you tell them about...
    Thread by: zclesa, Sep 17, 2023 at 1:49 PM, 5 replies, in forum: General Discussion Subforum
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    So Utterly Confused - The Start of my Story

    There is a deep inner loneliness that I have reawakened that I had since a child when no-one validated my pain and it was ignored or countered (I...
    Post by: zclesa, Sep 17, 2023 at 1:18 PM in forum: Support Subforum
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    What causes MBS based low libido/sexual dysfunction?

    Also, when you're in fight-flight-freeze mode, all non-essential-to-survival functions can shut down. Like you're not gonna be thinking about...
    Post by: zclesa, Sep 16, 2023 at 6:38 PM in forum: Support Subforum
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    David Seidler - Inspiring success story

    Wonderful story of TMS healing by the screenplay writer David Seidler (the King's Speech). He healed from stuttering through feeling and finding...
    Thread by: zclesa, Mar 15, 2023, 6 replies, in forum: General Discussion Subforum
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    All the Guilt - mother

    Oh, I do recognise it @Cactusflower. In IDSTP, we identified that my critic is like a pair of eyes watching me and judging me. It does not have a...
    Post by: zclesa, Mar 9, 2023 in forum: Support Subforum
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    All the Guilt - mother

    Thanks @Cactusflower - It's weird. It's not that I worry about hurting my mother with imaginary things. It's more like it hurts me because of the...
    Post by: zclesa, Mar 9, 2023 in forum: Support Subforum
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    All the Guilt - mother

    I am really struggling to feel anger towards my mother, who has Covert Narcissism going on. It's tough for a few reasons: 1, I imagine her as a...
    Thread by: zclesa, Mar 8, 2023, 7 replies, in forum: Support Subforum
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    Trying to live from a place of love, not fear.

    Trying to live from a place of love, not fear.
    Status Update by zclesa, Nov 21, 2022