In my work today (day 15), the suggestion was to try to accept that the issue happened in your life and move on. I can do that for a lot of things however, the big current issue I am still working through. I can't accept that it's happened which is why I'm Making life changes to change things so they will be better. Sometimes, you can't make someone else be better and their behaviour is abusive. How can I accept that that is happening? It's all too painful right now to simply move on. I think it works with childhood issues etc but not in my case right now....any thoughts?