tmsthrowaway05
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Anyone here have/had upper back issues? Mine are so bad. It must be spasms. It tenses up so much and the rest of the day if I touch my upper back it's extremely tender and painful to sit down.
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From what I've seen, it seems like TMS seems to really present itself around your early 20s. Sometimes a little sooner (late teens) sometimes a little later (late 20s, early 30s) so it makes sense for your symptoms to start then, but I'm new to this world so take that with a grain of salt lol. I know the thing that helps me the most with my pain is to stop what I'm doing, actively release my muscles in my shoulders so they aren't tense (I hold tension there pretty much 24/7 if I don't consciously relax, my resting position is to be tense lol) and after a few minutes once they're completely relaxed, I take 5 slow, deliberate deep breaths and envision oxygen flowing to my upper back and shoulders. Sometimes I'll envision a tornado sweeping through my upper back and shoulders or red blood flowing through, however it resonates with you the most. That takes my pain away pretty quickly for a while. It usually comes back but I just keep repeating that process. I'll do the Sarnos "tell your brain to shut the pain down" approach too, and that actually does help but it doesn't seem to be instantaneous for me. It seems to work on a delay lol I'll calmly tell my brain to stop the pain and then I'll realize a half hour, hour later that the pain has lessened.It's horrible. It's interesting because I'm sure low back pain is no joke, and can alter your walking abilities...but damn upper back pain feels like you can't breath, like your chest and shoulders are weak, makes me feel less like a man. I never had these issues growing up and am still only 26. I've had these pains every single day for 18 months and it's debilitating. I'm also working the SEP program on day 16.