It seems that perspective is the secret to forgiving. I've been thinking about those I want or need to forgive and about where they were coming from in the pain or distress they caused me, and I can find answers that help me to forgive. Some were flawed people, others were selfish and followed their own agenda without caring how it hurt me or others. I'll journal about it this morning and turn it over to my subconscious. And for sure forgive myself.