That's a wonderful video of Vivian Blaine from "Guys and Dolls."
And very true that stress, etc., can cause illness, as we're learning more lately from knowledge of cells
and Mindbody.
I just read this advice on living from, surprising to me, Marilyn Monroe:
"This life is what you make it. No matter what, you're going to mess up sometimes, it's a universal truth. But the good part is you get to decide how you're going to mess it up. Girls will be your friends - they'll act like it anyway. But just remember, some come, some go. The ones that stay with you through everything - they're your true best friends. Don't let go of them. Also remember, sisters make the best friends in the world. As for lovers, well, they'll come and go too. And baby, I hate to say it, most of them - actually pretty much all of them are going to break your heart, but you can't give up because if you give up, you'll never find your soul mate. You'll never find that half who makes you whole and that goes for everything. Just because you fail once, doesn't mean you're gonna fail at everything. Keep trying, hold on, and always, always, always believe in yourself, because if you don't, then who will, sweetie? So keep your head high, keep your chin up, and most importantly, keep smiling, because life's a beautiful thing and there's so much to smile about."
She also said, "Fear is stupid. So are regrets."
She had a lot of TMS. Her father deserted her and her mother before she was born, and her mother had mental problems so Marilyn spent
most of her girlhood in orphanages and foster homes. She had a lifelong feeling of abandonment and being unwanted. She also grew up in poverty, as a preteenager she worked in an orphanage kitchen for a nickel a month, and a penny of that was taken for a church donation. Her three marriages were all unsuccessful and she said she would rather have been loved than famous.