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Hi, I've had TMS for about 15 years and done really well in keeping it under control, but this last year has been really stressful and I've been dealing with pains and stomach symptoms that are old and new. My youngest daughter died of breast cancer earlier this year and I'm having a really hard time coping with the sadness and anger and all the other feelings. I've journaled a lot and read and re-read HBC and TMBP and Steve Ozanich's two books. and thought things were getting better, as the back and hip and leg pain was moving around again and had lessened. But yesterday I had a bad bout of Tachycardia and had to go to the hospital just to be safe. This is the third one in the last five years and because I had a mild heart attack 16 years ago it is a sure-fire way to get my attention and terrify me right back to where I'm feeling helpless and frustrated and out of control again. I will be doing all the tests the doctors set just to rule out any cause other than emotions, fear and anger etc. but I'm afraid to go through all their rigamarole again and have to start back at the beginning. I have no real support system here, just friends and family on the other end of the phone line, people who don't believe in TMS at all, and I'm so scared right now. Can you give me any suggestions in how to deal with this? I know Dr. Sarno mentions Tachycardia and that it's usually induced by emotional factors. As I said, I'm seeing my doctor to rule out any other causes but could really use some encouragement.
Thank you.
Bonnie
Thank you.
Bonnie