I am wanting to understand why I am so super affected over a conflict that I had with my neighbour who lives on the same floor. After a long time steaming about an ongoing issue (his dogs kept peeing in front of our hallway carpet), I finally told the manager and she escalated the issue and told him that I was the one who reported the issue. I know I am in the right with what happened but I still feel terrible and guilty about him telling me that I am a rat for reporting it etc. I never had any problem with nobody in our building and I mind my own business. We have a dog too and we are super respectful dog handlers so the peeing had been bothering me a lot for a long long time. I should have told him a long time ago that I don't like his dogs doing that. I am not sure why I never told him. Anyways, I just don't understand why I have all this anxiety and fear inside of my body and why I feel like I ruined the neighbours living situation. He said he will have to move now....I just wish I would be tougher inside and not let these little things affect me so badly. I just want to shake off the experience and move on... What do I care if he has to move...I don't understand my reaction. Can you help me understand why I have to feel like such a drama queen about this.