I've read most of the TMS books and am reading Steve's book a second time around right now .... I know somewhere in one of these books, it talks about "acceptance" ... probably in most of the books. What I'm looking for is acceptance in the way that you have a job and there is no other choice because of certain circumstances - you're kind of stuck and so you have to learn to accept it. Hope someone can help here ... thanks! This could go for anything beyond a job, but for me, it's the job.