Hi everyone I'm just really trying to figure out how to heal right now. From everything even being a people pleaser. My roommates that live in the room next to mine want to switch rooms because they think since they both work 2 jobs they deserve the bigger room which I get but I don't want to switch into there small room W me roommates and sleep in bunks. Yeah I'd be paying less rent but I like my bed and my room and everything in it. My roomate is very agressive with communication and she's gonna be so livid and passive agressive if I say no. My bloating has gotten worse since they asked. Not sure if I have a binge eating problem or if I am just too hard on my self about how much I eat ! Just had 2 protein cookies and I feel like that's too much I feel so full and bloated. I know sometimes I do binge though. I am just very stressed and don't know what to do. Also for the roomate situation everyone is on board to switch except me so I'm the one making things complicated. also my ex and I are talking and so much is going on how do I love my self and get through this and not feel bad about saying no, or people getting mad at me, or eating ?