Ever since I learned about TMS I have been trying to help others in pain, especially when I have a very good idea that it actually is TMS; that is to say I'm not going up to a guy with a bronchial cough and telling him it is TMS. These are people I know fairly well; I know they have the traits and the tell tale symptoms. Not to mention, I am trying to be helpful and have not told a person they have TMS for sure, but just to let them know it is a possibility. Every time now I've gotten pretty much a spat in the face and I'm really getting sick of it. Here's the latest from a friend of mine suffering from 'fibromyalgia.' "Fibromyalgia is NOT a psychological disorder, it is a PHYSICAL illness....there are psychological components, but you try being tired and in pain 24/7/365 for a few years and tell me if you don't have any psychological issues! You should really know your facts before you go spewing incorrect and insulting information all over the place!" And her mom chimed in: "Fibromyalgia is NOT just a psychological disorder!!! Read about it from more than one source, and check somewhere reliable like The Mayo Clinic!" Have fun being in pain for the rest of your life. Some of us want to get better.