This question was submitted via our Ask a TMS Therapist program. To submit your question, click here. Question I have had chronic back pain for the past year. I have zeroed in to 2 major causes ... Looking after my 94-year old mother (walk her to the toilet day and night), and dealing with an elder sister and brother who have totally decided to put as many spikes in the wheel as they can, while being being blissfully unaware of the damage done. For the past two days, I have begun to vent out and get angry. Now, before this the pain had got much better. So the question ... should I let it vent, or should I keep it cool and merely try to reign in my anger, realizing what the problem is. Thanks for any answers.