Hi all, I have dealt with perfectionism for a long time. It wasn't until I found out about TMS that I have been more aware of it and have started easing up on myself. I currently work at a cafe as a barista. We are crazy busy and here lately I have messed up some orders. Sometimes it's the customer telling me the wrong thing, but sometimes it's me making mistakes. I am trying to go easy on myself but also wonder if I mess up more than the average person. I am the only person they have working the counter. Last year we had two people on the really busy days, but this year it's just me. There are days I have 10 people waiting to place orders, plus I am making espresso drinks, customers who are already seated come in and want refills on coffee, I have to run all new orders to the kitchen because we don't have a printer in the back that prints the tickets, I clean tables when customers leave. So today I am wondering if I am making excuses and I have been making too many mistakes lately or if there is just way too much going on for one person. So how to you know if it's perfectionism or you are just not doing a good job? Thank you!!