This title is sure to get attention. We all got a bit of this Mama Drama. Three years ago I told my Mother she could no longer live with me and we'd have to make other living arrangements for her. It was this May 6th I saw an old text message. She stated she'd drive back with my brother with whom she was visiting to pick up her belongings and medical records on May 6th. This came only after two years I relocated her from another State to live with me. She moved in with me with severe medical conditions with less than 20% of her lung capacity. Yesterday May 6th was not an easy day. I'm still happy about taking care of myself but still causes me a lot of stress. I'm making time tomorrow to write about this and sit with the feelings a bit more. Not so funny how we bury our feelings. I kept wondering what was I suppose to remember about April 26 when it was approaching, as if it may be someones birthday. I saw this on the text as well that it was the day I put my foot down and told her if she's considering moving back to the State she's visiting that she should stay there until she has a plan together. It's ok to move in 3 to 6 months but figure it out before returning to me. She made no attempt while she was there and likely wouldn't after returning to me. She stays in a state of indecisiveness with things she wants to avoid. I believe the point in me sharing this right now is to get me started on giving this issue more attention and have the process unfold. My wife and I have actually talked about this regularly over the years. I've come a long way with more to go.