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Day 13 Letter to husband

Discussion in 'Structured Educational Program' started by Marla, Aug 24, 2014.

  1. Marla

    Marla Peer Supporter

    Of course I wrote all the things you wish you could say but are afraid of hurting the other person, starting a fight or some deep rift.

    My husband deals with depression and I struggle not to be co dependent and try to make things better for him. My counselor says he has to fix his own problems but it's hard for me to watch especially since he won't go back to counseling or meds.

    It's hard some days for me not to get pulled into his negative vortex.

    I have a hard time focussing on one thing, I will read my ipad while watching a movie or show. Being in the present and facing emotional stuff is hard.

    I have friends and family in and near napa. I was raised there. So after waking up middle of night and checking fb no more sleep.

    Off to work a closing shift at shop. Everyone in napa is fine, some smashed stuff but fine.
     
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  2. Eric "Herbie" Watson

    Eric "Herbie" Watson Beloved Grand Eagle

    Hope this helps Marla, Bless you


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    Which program are you running?
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    Does that sound true to you?

    If it does, you’re actually running an old program that’s only going to invite others to be upset with your values and decisions.

    Old program says: “I have to give up who I am in order to help the tribe (family, culture) survive.”

    New program says: “I have to live true to who I am to help the tribe thrive.”

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    Choose today to turn on the new program by clearing the old limiting belief. We’re all doing this together on the emotional and energetic level!

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