My reading of Dr. Sarno and others on TMS leads me to believe that anxiety pain is another kind of pain from TMS
repressed emotions and a perfectionist, "goodist" personality. I have anxiety because of workload and financial pressures,
and Dr. Sarno says those bring on TMS pain.
Anxiety is a tough one to overcome, but I manage most of the time by deep breathing, not worrying about the future
and just living in the present. I also find pleasant distractions, even if just watching a movie. If all else fails, I laugh.
There may not be anything to laugh at or about, but I pretend. Laughing drives away the anxiety.
I also think about what's making me anxious, and I usually conclude that it's not worth being anxious about.
Thanks, Anne! This weekend has been SO tough. My pain is so high. I'm so frustrated and anxious...I keep doubting myself. I appreciate the encouragement.Anxiety serves the same purpose as pain as far as they are both mental distractions. They are TMS equivalents. When my anxiety is high I am not as focused on the pain and visa versa. The pain does not need to move for it to be TMS. I had lower back pain last for over three years once without moving. That was my first big TMS symptom. Now that I am finally having tangible success in my TMS recovery, things move pretty quickly. I am hoping eventually the pain doesn't come at all but even if that doesn't happen, I feel like I am basically okay now.
... I wonder...is there such a thing as anxiety pain that is not TMS? Or would you consider all TMS pain caused by anxiety? Thoughts/ideas appreciated!
Another take on this for me is: The other night I experienced the longest earthquake I've ever been through. The windows were rattling and I was in FEAR that the building was going to fall on me and I was going to DIE. It stopped shaking, I felt better and (maybe foolishly) went back to sleep--lucked out this time. If I were constantly worrying about another earthquake occurring at any moment, and it kept me from functioning and doing the things I liked on a daily basis, I think that might be TMS anxiety.
I'm not totally clear on this anxiety thing and it's exact scientific explanation from a psychiatric TMS definition being a TMS hobbyist amateur. It's been the source of many a heated debate over at the other TMS board. It seems to me to be a question of the chicken and the egg, which came first the anxiety or the TMS, the fear or the symptom, or the fear of the symptom--it may be a circular argument in a wanna' be linear world.
Maybe TMS'ers can't see the forest for the trees--speaking of forest, isn't Forest on vacation, maybe when he comes back he can clarify this conundrum? I'm getting anxious and confused about this--it's way past my bedtime--I think I'm over-thinking this, I hope it doesn't give me insomnia--but if it does, I'll go change the oil on the Jeep.
Yes, Tom, I agree...it is a confusing thought. For me personally, I believe the anxiety came before the TMS, but now it is clear to me that it is a revolving door/cycle. From what I read, I believe that if we can get a firm grip on this anxiety monster, then our TMS pain will hit the road. That is my hope!