Hi, I was wondering how it's possible to get a good idea of what kind of things the unconscious wants. I know there are things that enrage the subconscious if you do or don't do that can subsequently cause pain or other TMS-related problems. But how do we always know what exactly enrages it? For example, I had arranged to go to a party tonight. But at the end of the work day I was so tired that I could barely keep my eyes open. In the end I didn't go but I was in 2 minds. On the one hand, I felt far too tired to be the life of the party and was afraid of then being even more tired tomorrow and just getting exhausted. On the other I wanted to go out because, due to some physical injuries I've spent far too much time in social isolation over the last 2 years and that causes me to feel depressed, so it would've been good to meet some new people. Did I make the right choice when it comes to being good to myself and my inner child? I'm still trying to understand this whole concept. I read The Mind Body Prescription in 2015 but didn't go much deeper into the whole thing than that at the time.