Bodhigirl
Well known member
Angry at partners? Yes definitely part of deep love and attachment. Wish everyone knew this before marriage. (A big reason why I love counseling unmarried 20-somethings!)A girlfriend once told me she didn't think I loved her because I never was angry at her. She was right. I liked her, but did not love her.
I am almost 86 and never married although I almost became engaged to three different girls. Now that I think of it, thanks to these posts here today, I was never angry at them. I have sometimes gotten angry at my dog, but that passes fast, and I know I love her. Oh well, on with the day.
My husband and my give each other the gift of anger and even rage sometimes. We both know how to send ourselves to our room!
Glad to read this, Walt. Thank you.