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Help with affirmations

Discussion in 'Support Subforum' started by Freeange, Jun 5, 2016.

  1. Freeange

    Freeange Peer Supporter

    i am incorporating positive affirmations into mt program and I am having trouble wording one about not being to hard on myself or not pressuring myself

    I want to use the firm "I am..." And I want to frame it in positive rather than negative language. Any suggestions?
  2. mike2014

    mike2014 Beloved Grand Eagle

    Hi there,

    I did create a thread on affirmations, but it was short lived, but there are some great examples.

    http://www.tmswiki.org/forum/threads/365-days-of-affirmations.12457/ (365 days of affirmations)

    However, if you want to set up your own statement, I've provided a little how to guide...


    http://m.dummies.com/how-to/content/how-to-write-your-own-affirmations.html (How to Write Your Own Affirmations - For Dummies)

    How to Write Your Own Affirmations

    By S. Renee Smith and Vivian Harte
    You can write effective affirmations fairly easily when you know how. Find a quiet place where you can be alone and can focus on writing statements that will improve your self-esteem. Keep the following in mind:

    • Choose one negative thought you have about yourself and write down the positive opposite that counteracts that belief. For example, you may often think, “I make so many mistakes.” In this case, you would write an affirmation like, “I am capable and experienced.”
    • Make your affirmations short so they’re easier for you to remember. Even statements as short as four or five words can be powerful.
    • Start your affirmations with “I” or “My.”Because you’re making a statement about yourself, it’s most effective if it starts with you. “I choose to be positive” is much better than “Positive thoughts are coming into my mind.”
    • Write your affirmations in the present tense. Write as though you’re experiencing what you desire right now, not in the future. For example, “I easily see my own worth and value” is superior to “I will easily see my own worth and value.” It’s also better not to put a time frame on your affirmation such as a certain date or “within three months,” because doing so limits when what you desire can happen.
    • Don’t begin your affirmations with “I want” or “I need.” You don’t want to affirm that you’re wanting and needing. Rather, write your affirmations as an expression of being grateful for already having and being what you want.
    • Make sure all your affirmations are positive statements. If you tell yourself you are discarding negative behavior and thoughts, your focus will be on those rather than on what you want to do and be. Don’t include words like “don’t,” “won’t,” “am not,” “can’t,” “not,” “doesn’t,” or “am stopping.” Instead of “I’m eliminating my miserable thoughts,” create an affirmation such as, “I’m happy being who I am.”
    • Add emotion to your affirmations by inserting, “I am [emotion] about . . .” or “I feel [emotion].” For example, you could say, “I am excited about being able to express what I think.”
    • Create affirmations that will work. If you don’t believe your statement, you’ll take timid actions and be hesitant, sure that you won’t be able to succeed. If you write an affirmation that is truly difficult for you to believe, write another one that starts with, “I am open to . . .” or “I am willing to believe I could . . .”
    Last edited: Jun 5, 2016
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  3. Ellen

    Ellen Beloved Grand Eagle

    How about: "I am filled with love and kindness toward myself." Or "I am loving and kind to myself."
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  4. Freeange

    Freeange Peer Supporter

    That is PERFECT!!!

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