Hi all, I'm new to the community I know a lot of us have the "do gooder" "people pleasing" "self sacrificing" bone in our body so to speak, and this is a difficult one for me to try to work out and put into practice. The people in my circle of friends and clients are some of the kindest, giving people and of course I like to return the gesture. I just had a client's wife call me to do a "hospital call" for her husband (I'm in the beauty biz). It's close by my house but I'm short on time and of course, still in pain. I told her that I wouldn't be able to come tomorrow and that I'd have to figure out another time and also my concerns about the set up of this place. I have pain with sitting, so it creates a lot of anxiety (and pain). She seemed understanding that I couldn't come tomorrow (they are both awesome people) but they've been VERY generous to me over the years, and I am feeling horribly guilty. I need some words of advice from you lovely people Thanks!