Boston Redsox
Well Known Member
This trait as put me in the situation I am in today....always taking care of everybody else and treating myself like a fruggin door mat for others.
It has set me up for for failure in my marriage even with my kids I let them shit all over me. That's not right. I feel I don't need to change being a good person, what I need to do is take care of me first. Know else is or will am I so wrong.
Like the old saying put oxygen mask on you first before you help others.
I need to start to confront my wife in a calm responsive manner , I will not get sucked into one of her traps and start reacting as foolish as she does. I need to take this stand and tell her to leave the house period.
She is looking for a hand out for the rest of her life and I told her to get a job.
Anyway enough sharing for this evening.
God bless
It has set me up for for failure in my marriage even with my kids I let them shit all over me. That's not right. I feel I don't need to change being a good person, what I need to do is take care of me first. Know else is or will am I so wrong.
Like the old saying put oxygen mask on you first before you help others.
I need to start to confront my wife in a calm responsive manner , I will not get sucked into one of her traps and start reacting as foolish as she does. I need to take this stand and tell her to leave the house period.
She is looking for a hand out for the rest of her life and I told her to get a job.
Anyway enough sharing for this evening.
God bless
