I'm a goodist! This is one of the key insights I've had so far in my TMS research. The description on the Personality Traits page fits me perfectly. I need everyone to like me. If 10 people give me praise and 1 person criticizes me, I obsess over the 1. So, do I need to try to change this about me? I think I remember reading that it's not necessary to change personality traits to overcome TMS, but would it help to try? And, if so, how would I even go about it? I watched a TED talk a couple of weeks ago by a guy who was scared to death of rejection so he set off on 100 Days of Rejection where he would intentionally put himself in situations where rejection was likely. (It's a very entertaining talk - I recommend it.) I wonder what 100 Days of No Goodism (Badism? Selfishness?) would look like and whether it would be useful.