All, I am a 26 year old man who from the age of 18 has had massive TMS. I was told at that age I had herniated discs and that it would be that way for the rest of my life. It took a big toll on me. This year I discovered Dr. Sarno. I read his Healing Back Pain twice and have been pain free ever since. Now I have another problem. About 50% of the time it comes time to perform in the bedroom, someone just doesn't feel like cooperating. It's like the second we start initiating, I get overwhelming anxiety that I need to perform. That I need to be good, that it needs to work. Obviously this makes it impossible and I just leave, incredibly angry. I have a big hunch that this is not physical. It seems to stem from my same subconscious that gave me the back pain. It does say that it always manifests in the way that would most hurt. I'm extremely frustrated and have no one to turn to. Does anyone have experience with this? Can anyone help?