Hi all, my own TMS journey is going unbelievably well - a few setbacks when my brain kicks back at me, but when that happens I know I'll have a major breakthrough next day - just like the books say! This isn't about me though. I have three good friends who all very clearly have TMS but only one of them is taking it on board at all. One says she's in "too much pain to look at it". This breaks my heart. Now my question is, when you get this kind of reaction, how do you keep your mouth shut when your friend is clearly in agony? I can't possibly keep saying to her that she should try TMS treatment - at least read the books - when she doesn't want to as she doesn't believe it will work for her. I have been close friends with her for many years, since before her botched back operation which has left her paralysed from the waist down and it breaks my heart how much pain she lives in daily. I'm not sure how to behave now when I visit her - there's an elephant in the room now as I can't badger her about it. This treatment is so amazing I want to share it with the world, but even my closest friends won't look at it! This must have happened to many people on here so how do you deal with it please?