Dr. Hanscom's Blog Emotional triggers

This is a short excerpt from today's email newsletter/blog by Dr David Hanscom MD, followed by the "read more" link to the entire blog post on his website. The discussion is about family members and emotional triggers, written in conjunction with Dr Les Aria.

"The basic problem arises from people in close relationships triggering each other. What does being “triggered” mean? We survive by learning from prior experiences what is safe or threatening. This includes your emotional states and consciousness, which are processed in a similar manner as physical threats. Many, if not most, of these mental threats are perceived and are based on cognitive distortions. It is the reason many of us have a baseline state of being “fired up.”

So, anytime you feel anxious or angry, something in the present has been connected to a situation in the past that was perceived as threatening or was dangerous. Your adult brain will still process it in the same manner. You have been triggered. The problem arises from the fact that you are now in the past and not the present. You have lost awareness of the present moment, which is at the core of functional human relationships.

As your earliest and most powerful programming happens with your immediate family, they are the strongest and most consistent triggers. Close relationships are not far behind. The deeper problem is that when you are in this state of threat physiology, the activity of your brain shifts from the neocortex (thinking centers) of your brain to the lower regions (survival) of your brain and you cannot think clearly. It is not possible. So, then your behaviors or those of others may be less than ideal. What can you do? Here are some suggestions."

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I love Les Aria, he has a gentle way of exposing the heart of matters.

 

I suspect he is also a better writer than Dr Hanscom, who is brilliant, but who typically needs someone to proof his work. This is much better written than usual.