I enjoyed reading all the comments! Humor, support, and acceptance came through! This time of year is tough, I have posted about it before, and also tough for those of us who are affected by the darkness and cloudy cold days. (Me). In recent years I have set some limits, picking one or two things that are important, and slowed down to enjoy the time with loved ones and reflect on what it means to me and what is important in the Big Scheme of things. And doing something, it can be one thing anonymously and/or for charity. So rewarding. I try to keep active ( for those who know my posts it is yoga and swimming) and get outside when it is sunny. And enjoying those sweet moments of sunset, lights, and bells.