I notice as I'm reading TMS literature, I seem to continuously get confused of the difference between these two things. If we are not supposed to repress, then shouldn't we get angry when something irritates us? On the other hand, aren't there situations where it is detrimental to our health to get angry. For example when people are assholes in traffic. On the one hand I feel like if they understand the entirety of the situation they wouldn't be rude, but when they are It feels like something was (energetically) taken from me.