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Day10 what is going on

Discussion in 'Structured Educational Program' started by ashoo79, Feb 29, 2016.

  1. ashoo79

    ashoo79 New Member

    Hi folks IAm really stressed right now but coping it. My sister came to take care of me and my 3 month old baby from out of country. She just left today and Iwas literally missing her tons also have fears of who will take care of my baby and other kids.husband is a huge support but this pain is just killing me (sciatica leg pain and lower back pain). I just journal about it too 2 in the morning that how sad I am about my sister leaving also fearful of my future what if my things remain the same?. I truly believe it's a TMS but read somewhere about structure structure structure on this forum lately.
    My friend gave me Sarnos book and I read it my pain didn't go away but I believe I have TMS because of my personality traits which almost all belong to me (forum ones)more as well. I also believe that I have TMS because I have no other choice.mImstopped going to physical therapy just taking pain at least twice a day.
    WHAT in the World am I doing Wrong?????. Plz guide me of what to do. My spine docs told me its my L4L5 disc and the nucleus touching my sciatica nerve and causing pain????? Is it structural..????
     
  2. MellieV

    MellieV Peer Supporter

    Hi Ashoo. Just keep following the program. Don't stop journaling, or looking for connections between your emotions and pain. Find any way you can to stay calm - breathing, meditating, tapping, music..anything. Repeat Dr. Sarno's 12 Daily Reminders to yourself or out loud every day. Don't give up.
     
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  3. ashoo79

    ashoo79 New Member

    yes Mellie V I am doing that day and night. even small few hings just journaling and listening to all lectures
    thanks
     
  4. Walt Oleksy

    Walt Oleksy Beloved Grand Eagle

    Hi, Mellie. I can understand you have some more pain after your sister left. I hope you can keep in touch via email or phone.

    You might take a look at some of the very relaxing videos on Youtube. Look up "relaxation."

    Here are Dr. Sarno's 12 Daily Reminders, in case they are not handy:


    Herbie’s Extended Version of Dr. Sarno’s 12 DAILY REMINDERS

    1. The pain is due to TMS. This is real pain or anxiety but it is caused by subconscious tensions and triggers, stressors and traits to your reactions and fears and also when at boiling point your conscious tension can and does also cause real pain.
    2. The main reason for the pain is mild oxygen deprivation. This means that when you get in pain or anxiety then the blood is restricted from going to your lower back, for instance. The blood being restricted causes oxygen deprivation which causes the pain. Remember, where there is no oxygen then there is pain in the body. Also, the pain stays because of fear.
    3. TMS is a harmless condition caused by my REPRESSED EMOTIONS so even though you think you can harm yourself from the years of pain you have felt and how you feel in general -- so far no reports have been heard from TMS healing knowledge causing damage to anyone, it only helps.
    4. The principle emotion is your repressed ANGER -- this means under your consciousness lies something that happens automatically to everyone. TMSers have repressions that are stored because of our personality traits, traumas, stressors, fears, strain, etc... When these stored repressions build and build, then eventually they cause the brain to send pain into your body to keep you from having an emotional crises. The mind-body thinks it is helping you.
    5. TMS exists to DISTRACT your attentions from the emotions, stressors, tensions and strains of your personality traits because if you can get distraction then you won’t have to be in emotional turmoil. When you don't face and feel your emotions and they get repressed because you didn't want to deal with something -- they are just adding up in this beaker, ready to pour over and create real pain and anxiety in your body.
    6. Since my body is perfectly normal, there is nothing to fear. So in reality when I fear the pain or anxiety I just cause myself undo strain and tension adding to the beaker of pain. If I fear, then I feed the pain, If I fear, it’s impossible to recondition. Fear keeps the pain and anxiety alive in the body through focus.
    7. Therefore, physical activity is harmless. If I want to work against the pain I could but it’s better to lose some of the pain so when I start my life over I have to be in pain trying to heal because facing the repressions and all the other activities that cause the pain and reversing my fear and focus to them, then I can heal.
    8. I am resuming all normal physical activity. I don't fear moving anymore. I believe in my body’s ability to heal now. I can move as I want. I will not fear moving with a bent back anymore. I will also practice going out and acting normal again, not in fear of what pain might do to me.
    9. The pain is unimportant and powerless. Its only power is how it is hidden -- its illusion, its fear.
    10. I will keep my attention on the emotional issues. I will think about my emotions and feel my emotions throughout the day. I will not judge, criticize or fear my emotions. I will not run from my emotional issues but face every one of them. I will feel my emotions fully and cry if I need to. Then I will release the emotion and get my mind and thoughts back to my life and living in the present.
    11. I am in control of all of this. This is how I recover.
    12. I will be thinking PSYCHOLOGICALLY AT ALL TIMES. This means I will keep my thoughts on psychological issues like happiness, fear and anger -- traits and triggers, conditioning and journaling -- The science behind mind-body/TMS healing, etc.... This way I will not feed my thoughts to the body -- that is a trick of TMS. TMS will always try to get me to focus on the body caused by the pain until I break its show and flair. When I get my attention off physical symptoms and on to emotional issues and psychological issues then I will not feed the fear of the physical issues anymore, thus making the TMS of no pain effect on the body. This will in return, give us the cure and become pain-free.
     

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