I feel that most, if not all, of the bad stuff that happened me in the past was my fault. I mean, I know, intellectually, that it wasn't and I was only a child. But emotionally I still feel it was my fault somehow. My question is: how do I change that feeling and that sense of responsibility that has been so deeply ingrained into my being? Is it even possible? I mean, really possible? Have any of you actually accomplished that? Please tell me your success stories.. I need some hope.. Also, thank you to those of you who have given me feedback until now. I'm not very active on the forum and I don't post on other's wall much. Mostly because I'm at work when I'm online. But I really appreciate your responses.