Hello everyone, this is my first official post, my name is Michael, by the way. I want to believe TMS, prior to my most recent onset of symptoms i always had alot of pain when confronted with tough emotional feelings. Like any time the "goodist" in me was threatened by the idea of not being good enough for my fiance, when she would get dissappointed, my neck and right arm would start burning and I would have immense pain, but in that moment i was thinking about my arm, not how i was a failure or not good enough, or even back to earlier childhood issues and gender/sexuality issues. Working at a struggling startup company as a software engineer I find that daily, even though I am a great engineer, I am confronted with immense stress and continuous failure, working 30+ hours straight often, with strong emotional depression, anxiety, and feelings of "imposter syndrome". It has only been a short time since the onset of "permanent" symptoms, by that i mean, symptoms that are there all the time, not just in the most stressful moments. It's been about a month and a half. I have recovered from the immense pain since starting a healthy regimen and reading Sarno's TMP, however its all still there. Chiropractors, doctors, and pt's ive seen have called it. "Nerve impingement", "RSI", "Thoracic Outlet Syndrome". Insurance denied MRI. I saw myself on every page of Sarno's TMP, how do I let go of the fear of pain. I can see it in my mind. Sometimes ill see a code snippet on paper, and `brace` for pain, that association is clearly unhealthy. Stopping myself from writing anymore, but, any thoughts, supportive tips, guidance. btw. On top of work stress, i am getting married, which is fun and amazing and beautiful, but put incredible stress on me and my fiance.