I must say that the more I read up on this, the more convincing the TMS theory is to me. I have accepted the diagnosis but still have doubts if that make sense. I realise that I must fully banish these doubts but confident that with more knowledge this will happen. I would say my personality trait is that I'm a Goodist/people pleaser for sure. I always avoid conflict and tend to agree with what People say just to get on with it. I have carried out tasks that I'm not comfortable but have just got on with it. I realise now that this can be bad over time to the inner-child that is within us. Journaled for the 1st time today for 15 mins about something that is fairly recent and was quite revealing to me. The event I wrote about revealed to me how much my Goodist trait could be component which contributes to TMS. I'm sure the more I dig the more convinced I will get and hopefully heal. Bless.